HOW TO COMUNICATE EFFECTIVELY WITH < FAMILY MEMBER>

(1) NORMALIZATION

     *   Parents like to know that they are not the only ones experiencing problems with their children, it helps ease the sense of failure and the fear or being labeled a “ bad ” parent.

(2) LISTEN, STAY CURIOUS

·         By listening and asking question, parents tend to be far more receptive when it comes time for them to listen.

(3) AVOID DISAGREEMENT

·     When talking with a parent never argue or assume an oppositional / confrontational position – even if you are right.

(4) INTERPERSONAL SKILLS

   * Effective interpersonal communication involves putting people ( family members ) at ease, respecting others opinions and capabilities, and encouraging the sharing of feelings and perceptions.

(5) TONE OF VOICE

·         Your tone of voice can determine the effect of your      message

·       *  Your tone of voice should match the message you’re trying to convey.

·       Varying the pitch to demonstrate excitement or disappointment can help your listener to hear the intent of the message.